It’s not uncommon to feel stuck or like we can’t change. We may lose sight of our goals or dreams when responsibilities and challenges start piling up over the years. The nice thing about time is that it keeps going, and in turn, things can always change, including how we perceive or define ourselves. Reinventing yourself at 40 is easy!
None of us are obligated to stay the same and we all deserve to explore opportunities that could rejuvenate our zeal for life.
It’s easier to reinvent ourselves than you may expect! Here are a few things to try.
Picking Up a New Hobby
Learning and trying new things is a way to grow and rediscover joy. Have you ever wanted to learn a new language or how to cook? Maybe take up a sport or physical activity? Is there something you’ve been meaning to try but haven’t made time for? Do it!
As we get older, we have a tendency to prioritize taking care of others or focus on our careers over our personal lives or leisure. Reclaim time for your happiness.
Giving Yourself a Makeover
Sticking to routine saves time but can also feel redundant or mundane after a while. Shaking up your personal image could boost your self-esteem and confidence. With ever-changing trends in fashion and beauty, there are so many ways to find a new look!
Want to shake-up your routine? Try:
- A New Hairstyle
- Whether it’s a cut or color, deviating from your typical do could help you see yourself in a new light.
- New Beauty Products
- We tend to stick to products we know. As we get older, the needs of our skin may change, and incorporating new beauty products like a rose quartz roller, a soothing serum, or anti-aging creams can help us feel more excited to get ready.
- Exploring New Trends
- Treat yourself to a new blouse or accessories in colors and patterns you wouldn’t necessarily think to wear yourself. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, there’s only rule to keep in mind in regards to fashion: if you feel good, you look good!
Exploring New Places
Experiences help us discover more about ourselves: what we like and what we dislike, maybe even things we had no idea existed. Whether it comes down to trying a new cuisine or traveling to a new city, expanding our worldview helps us grow and become part of a greater community. You may even discover a new place to live–life’s short, yet the number of things we have yet to discover is endless.
Tackling a Big Goal or Dream
Sometimes our dreams or goals are put on the back-burner as we get older. We may discover we no longer want to pursue them. No matter the case, it’s never too late to make a plan to achieve the things we want or to sit down and establish new goals.
Having something to look forward to and work towards builds character, you may find that the journey is just as fun as the destination. The only way to find out is to take that first step.
Do What Makes You Happy
Life is too short to be unhappy. Prioritize the relationships and things that make you content and eliminate the things that don’t. You’ll soon find that the “new” you probably isn’t much different than the “old” you, but rather just a happier and rejuvenated you.